Sunday, 22 April 2012

Focused Finn, Happy Finn, Grumpy Finn, Sad Finn

As I was looking back over the pictures from the past couple of posts (yeah, I do that... even with Finn in front of me I like to look at pictures of him... sad, I know) I noticed that he's not really smiling in most of them.  It gives the impression that he is a very serious baby.

This is NOT true!  He is an ornery, happy, laughy baby... the thing is, when he's concentrating or trying something new, he gets this very serious "focus face."  And, often, we think to take pictures when he's concentrating and trying something new.  So you see the problem in representation!  So this blog will redress that balance with lots of what Finn looks like most of the day (I actually specifically kept the camera out to get some "normal day" shots).

But FIRST! Some more focus face for you - to show you how good he's getting at his new skills!  He's always a bit behind on his gross motor skills - so he still can't sit up on his own or anything - but he's very very in control of his hands.  Here are some videos of us giving him some weird things for him to explore.  It may not look too impressive, but trust me that his hand control is above and beyond :o)




He also is a big fan of playing with the computer. My Mom gave me a link to something called 'Baby Smash' which is a program that locks your computer from any harm being done and instead every key reads out a letter or a shape. Finn LOVES it - which means he can be entertained easily, but also that he thinks he can bang on my laptop whenever he wants... not sure how I feel about that, but here's him having a go:



So that's Focus-Face-Finn.
And as promised here is some happy Finn!




He likes being scared...


And is quite ticklish...


And, just for good measure, here's him laughing in the swing in America...


So he is happy most of the time, but he can also get himself into some proper grumps - particularly if you do something he doesn't want you to do...
This is a video of him rolling, the one major skill that he CAN do.  He can roll over all different directions.  And uses this to get into all sorts of trouble and move into exactly the place I don't want him to go to.  But if you try and make him do it on camera by taking away one of his favourite toys (the amazingly high tech plastic bowl) he gets a bit grumpy....




But what about sad Finn?  Well, we obviously don't often take pictures and videos when he's unhappy.  But I do have one - this is a video of him crying in his sleep.  I don't know what he was dreaming about but it was certainly unhappy!
Please ignore my frizzy hair by the way - it was early in the morning.  Please also ignore my convulsions as I try very very hard not to laugh.  It shouldn't have been funny, but it really was!

Monday, 16 April 2012

Food... part 2

I take it all back.

I don't care how much he likes it, Finn doesn't get any more solid food until he is either
a) potty-trained
or
b) able to change his own nappy


Solid food nappies are disgusting.
Especially since the change has resulted in Finn not pooing for a couple days and then having one enormous, squeezing out every gap, gut-wrenchingly gross, stink out the building, head for the hills poo.

The other day it was so bad I had to turn the shower on and take him in to undress him... then wash the poo off him... then wash the poo off me... then wash the poo off his clothes... then wash the poo off the bathtub.



It was traumatic.  I think I'm scarred for life.


Wednesday, 11 April 2012

Food, glorious food (6 months old)


April 2nd meant that Finn turned 6 months old!  That's half a year!!  So here is his monthly comparison picture:

5 months old
6 months old

As you might be able to tell he has gotten bigger!  By bigger I mostly mean fatter - he's gaining weight steadily but his length isn't keeping pace.  I think there might be some errors in measurement though because he's supposedly a centimetre shorter than he was two months ago... so either he is shrinking or he was measured wrong.  But this month's (possibly wrong) measurement has him on the 9th percentile for length - a big drop from the 91st percentile measurement of two months ago (which was probably also wrong) and not close to the 75th percentile of his birth and 2 month check (which he held a lot stiller for so I'm going to assume were correct.  Anyway, I stood him up next to another 6 month old baby and they weren't drastically different so I'm going to wait to worry until his next month's measurements to see what is going on...
But his weight is always textbook 50th percentile, right on the line, exactly where he should be, gaining about a pound a month.
Which puts him currently at 17 lbs 9 oz!
This is exactly 10 lbs over his birth weight - which I find amazing seeing as he has had nothing but breastmilk since he was born (what's in that stuff!?)...
until NOW!

The biggest update is that Finn now eats food!
It used to be that you were told to start babies on solids at 4 months.  But in 2003 the World Health Organisation  found that it was healthier to wait until 6 months and the official UK and US recommended age changed accordingly.  Health issues aside, one of the bonuses of waiting until 6 months is that this is also the age when babies are developing the dexterity to bring things to their mouth - meaning they can feed themselves!  Here this is called Baby Led Weaning. Weaning has a different meaning in the UK, here it just means adding solids, not dropping milk feeds. The Baby Led bit is just that - you let the baby decide what they want to eat and how much.  I won't get into all the details here - so if you're curious to know more, have a look at the wikipedia page ( http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Baby-led_weaning ) which is quite good or this person's site ( http://www.babyledweaning.com/ ) which has some great pictures.
Basically the idea behind baby led weaning is as follows:
1) the baby is in charge of what/how much they eat
2) they eat the same thing as everyone else, just in sizes that are easier for them to hold (and without salt)
3) you don't put anything into their mouth for them (we cheat on this a bit - if what we're having is really liquidy, like soup, we help him out... but if it's a bit stickier, like humus, we put it on a spoon and let him put the spoon in his mouth)

There are, of course, other options for weaning but this one seemed to fit best with us and so far it has been going very well.
By very well, I mean very VERY well.

Finn.
Loves.
Food.

At first I think he just liked the fun of putting things in his mouth.  But now (a few weeks into it) he is definitely chewing and swallowing and will show a preference for some foods over others. When we put they tray on his chair he gets very excited.  The only problem is that it can be MESSY! so we have taken to eating in the kitchen because it has the easiest to clean floor.  It's a bit odd, the three of us sitting on the kitchen floor munching our food - but it's quite fun as well.  It really feels like family time and Finn is doing his own thing with us rather than us doing things for him.
So obviously I am now going to do the trademark first-time-parent thing of presenting you all with the glorious Lots of Pictures of the Exact Same Thing!

The first thing Finn ate was broccoli.  Weeeell - to be more precise my parents actually gave him a strawberry and some watermelon first... but that doesn't count because it wasn't 'official' lets-sit-down-and-eat time.  To be fair, I gave him food in that way too... and the first broccoli he had was at a restaurant where he wouldn't stop trying to grab my food so I gave him broccoli to gnaw on... again, we're going to say that doesn't count :)

So we sit Finn down, give him broccoli, and he LOOOOOOVES it.  And loves that we're finally letting him do what he's wanted to do for ages.... but we're so intent on the "OMG look at him eat!" thing that we forgot to take pictures until the end and the lighting etc is awful... (almost all the pics from our kitchen are like that... sorry) but here's his first food and the outcome

He now eats loads of different things...
Cucumber

Broccoli

Melon

Avocado... Oranges

Hummus (sometimes he's better with the spoon than others...)
No matter what, eating gets him very excited


It's also worth noting that his first impressions don't mean anything long term.  He loves tomatoes now.  But here is the saga of his first one...

It was quite funny I think you'll agree!!
But as I mentioned, he now LOVES tomatoes.
So what does he like? What doesn't he?
WELL -
Loves: carrots, cucumber, tomato, beef, turkey, hummus, melon, rice cakes, pea soup
Likes: chicken, pork, parsnips, pears, butternut squash, broccoli, apple, banana, toast, oranges, avocado
Doesn't like: mashed potatoes, stuffing, scrambled eggs, turnips

That's all I can think of at the moment - quite a range already and I can't wait to continue to watch him explore more!

And on that note - it's dinnertime!

Wednesday, 28 March 2012

America!

Apologies for the very long silence, Finn and I just got back from two weeks in America.  I didn't mention it because it was a surprise for my Dad's 60th birthday, which was loads of fun!
Overall it was an amazing trip that went perfectly.  In fact the only thing remotely amiss was the freak heat-wave (it got up to 88 degrees F, 31 degrees C!!) and Finn's growth spurt which combined meant that Finn didn't have much that fit and what fit was too warm... but all was ok after a bit of shopping and a few (pink hehehe) Caitlin hand-me-downs.  It was brilliant and I have loads to say, but I thought today I would hand the keyboard over to Finn...


Hello!  Mum has said I need to learn the art of gratitude from an early age.  So I want to write a thank you note because I had a really fun time visiting my Philips Family...

Dear Pea-Pa,
Thank you for turning 60 so I had an excuse to come and visit you!  I'm sorry I cried when everyone cheered - it was a bit loud!  But after that I was really happy to see you and all the other people at your party.  Thank you for letting me stay with you as well.  We did lots of fun things together!  Like playing piano and going to the park (my first swing! I loved it!)


Thanks for being so great, Pea-Pa.

Love, Finn


Dear Grandma,
We had so much fun together! So much so that Mummy often forgot to take pictures of it (or she was sleeping...).  But thank you for taking me so many places and playing so many games.  I'll miss seeing your smile in the mornings - it was a happy way to start the day!  Thank you also for carrying me around everywhere, I know I'm pretty heavy.

Love, Finn


Dear Great-Grandma and Great-Grandpa,
I'm so glad I got to see you so many times!  Thank you for thinking I'm something special - it makes me so happy.  Thank you also for letting me take a bath in your sink - I think it was one of my best baths ever!



Love, Finn


Dear Cousin Caitlin,
Thank you for sharing your clothes with me.  I'm not sure pink is my colour but my mum thought it was funny.  Thank you also for sharing your toys with me...

even when you weren't sure you wanted to...

I was happy to share with you too.  Things like my foot, or some funny stories...


I'm so so happy we got to spend so much time together. And what a difference 4 months makes!
Love, Finn


Dear Cousin Dakota,
Thank you for inviting me to your birthday!  I can't believe you are FOUR!  That's so old!

Thank you also for helping with bathtime.  I thought it was fun to share a sink with Caitlin and play with you.

Love, Finn


Dear Aunt Jaimie,
Thank you for coming to stay with me at Grandma and Pea-Pa's house!  And thank you especially for bringing my cousins!  I love them!  it must have been hard work for you but I thought it was a lot of fun.
Also, I think you are hilarious!

Thank you also for showing me the science museum - I especially loved the water area.
Love, Finn


Dear Aunt Casey,
Thank you so much for coming to stay as well!  I know it was a really long trip for you and you did it twice - that's incredible!  I'm so glad you did though, I think you're pretty cool.  Thank you especially for showing me so many cool things...

Love, Finn


Dear Muncle Matthew,
You didn't go on your holiday so you could spend time at home as well - that made me so happy!  Thank you for that.  And thank you for letting me try your motorcycle!

I felt like such a dude!


Until they let Caitlin drive...

Love, Finn


I had such an amazing time hanging out with everyone and am so thankful that we all got to be there at once.  I think we made quite a mess in the crowded house, but it was so worth it and I know Mum thought it was an incredible thing having all her family in one place.
Thank you to everyone for such fun times...

Sorry for the splashing!

I really loved it.

and I love you all!  See you again soon!

Lots and lots of love,
Finn

Wednesday, 7 March 2012

5 months old!

Apologies for going over a week with no update or pictures or anything.  There's been a stomach bug making the rounds and both James and I have not been too well the past few days.  Seem to be over the worst of it now, though still scared to try something other than toast and oatmeal... In related news, here are some things that I have learnt:
1) taking care of a baby when you are not feeling well is awful
2) as much as you think it will make you feel better, mulligatawny soup is a BAD idea and will make everything worse
3) there's nothing quite like being laughed at while you're puking... even if it is a baby doing the laughing

While I'm on the subject, I thought I would have a quick British translation lesson for my American friends.
One of my favourite UK-isms is the word "sick" because it holds an interesting place in language here.  In the UK (unlike in the US, for my UK readers) you don't really say "I am sick."  Instead it is I am unwell, ill, or (my favourite) poorly.  (side note: I LOVE the term poorly.  It's just such a nice word!).
That's because the word 'sick' is reserved for the actual act of "being sick" ie: puking.  It is far too crass to say "I just puked" and still slightly too impolite to mention 'vomiting.' And don't go anywhere near 'spewing' in polite society.  Instead, you 'were sick.'  As in:
'You don't look too well - are you poorly?'
'Yes, I must have eaten something funny'
'Oh no! Were you sick?'
'Five times!'

Which is why I find it so linguistically interesting.  You can never say "I am sick" because it just doesn't make sense.  It is always either "I was sick (in your pool)" or "I'm going to be sick (after seeing you dance)" or if, for some odd reason you are actually currently in the present process, I suppose "I am being sick (at this bluugh exact arrrrglle moment uuwwwwuh)" is ok.
But it gets weirder:
The word is also used as the noun.  In the same way that you vomit vomit, you are sick with sick.  So you can unknowingly have "sick on your shirt" or "careful! don't step in the sick."

I find it all a bit odd.

BUT ANYWAY!
Back to the task at hand.
"I don't care anymore!" I hear you shout.
"Give me a picture of Finn!  Now!"

alright, alright, already.
March 2nd meant that Finn turned 5 months old!  Here's his new picture (it's not the best because I was really not in the mood for picture taking on March 2nd - but I hope that's forgivable) next to his old one.

4 months old
5 months old

Other updates you might care to know about:
  • He now weighs 16 lbs 8 oz
  • He's still sleeping like a demon child
  • He's still screeching all day long like he's in need of an exorcism
  • He's been to the swimming pool and loved it
  • He can now get his feet into his mouth (as long as he doesn't have a nappy on)
  • He's discovered his penis and likes to grab a hold of it and pull when he's being changed (is this normal!? It looks so painful!)
  • He still hasn't figured out that last millimetre of push needed to roll over (he gets soooo close) from his back to front
  • What little hair he has is still of an indeterminate colour
  • His eyes are most definitely blue (like James) 
Can't think of anything else really... and I wish I had more pictures to share... but this week has been blurred by a haze of sick (ewww!) so there's not much.  I will leave you with a couple that I put up on facebook though, because they're funny.  If you're on facebook, they're worth seeing again and if you're not, enjoy them for the first time. 
The first one I just think is really funny and the second is James' idea of a "good outfit" because it "all matches" ...
Bring me an espresso! I've got a lot of not sleeping to do!

Finn, the baby barcode